This time of year is so much fun. People hold doors for each other, strangers say “Hello!” to each other, people are just a little bit more kind. It seems so magical. The other day we were in the grocery store and this cute little lady was singing along to a Christmas carol that was playing in the store. She saw me and stopped singing, so I picked up where she left off and we sang to each other together in the midst of the trash bag aisle. I mean come on, when else can you do that?
It can also be a stressful time, full of to-do lists and places to be, people to see, things to buy and wrap, lots to do. It can make anyone a little on edge.
Well, I think I have cracked the code for a less stressful Christmas season. It’s working for me, so I wanted to share it.
The other day I was driving down I-25 fighting the heavy traffic. All of a sudden, I looked at my husband and said , “I feel no stress, no hurry. Just peace.” It took me a few days of thinking about this feeling and holding onto it to figure out what was happening. Usually this time of year, I’m in a big rush and have about 20 lists of things to get done. I get tired and cranky, don’t get enough sleep, eat too much sugar and drink lots of wine.
Here is what I have been doing differently this season:
- Waking up and talking to God and thanking Him before I even get out of bed.
- Reading 5 Psalms each morning while drinking coffee.
- Writing down 3 things I’m grateful for.
- Working out.
- Meditating and taking a nap for 1 hour of the afternoon (I work from home, so I can do this most days). Most people can’t do this, so I suggest taking a walk on your lunch break instead. It seems to have the same effect.
- Do something nice for someone else every day. Random Acts of Kindness.
- Talking to God through the day. About everything.
- Saying no to some social engagements and knowing that’s okay.
- At bedtime, praying and meditating.
- Giving up sweets, candy and alcohol for many reasons. Mostly because sugar feeds cancer, and I definitely don’t want to experience this ever ever again. Did I say EVER??
This year is so different. Sometimes, I wish it wouldn’t have taken cancer to get me here. But that is part of my story and it is written exactly how it is supposed to be.
I FEEL SO GOOD. Not just physically, but mentally and spiritually as well. So peaceful, thankful and actually enjoying the season. There are things that happen every single day that tempt me to stress out. But instead, I simply choose not to. I step back and think about why I’m feeling the urge to stress. Then I re-evaluate and redo my thinking, sometimes needing to talk it out, sometimes changing the goals of what I want to accomplish.
I hope you can integrate some of these habits into your days so you can pause, breathe, and enjoy.
My Docs ordered me a MUGA for tomorrow, where they put a tiny bit of a radioactive substance in my bloodstream and scan my heart. Then I have chemo on Friday. I seem to feel bad physically for about 2 weeks, then that last week is pure awesomeness. Every 3 weeks till FEBRUARY- then I will get my port out and be done with this. So close!!!
Enjoy your Holidays. My hope is that you feel this special season’s love, comfort and peace. Hold tight to that peace.
Happy Hanukah! Happy Winter Solstice! Happy Kwanzaa! And the reason I celebrate, Merry Christmas, Happy Birthday Jesus!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” John 3:16